At lent we contemplate the passion of Christ and so we are reminded of Our Lord Jesus's great love for us.
When we recieve this love it sets us free and gives hope. There is great joy in contemplating His personal love for us. A real love that proved itself in suffering in all things. But we can't recieve His love if we do not have open hands and open hearts and so we empty ourselves through prayer, fasting and sacrifice. The sacrifices we make though sometimes difficult are made lighter with the knowledge that it is the fruits of His Sacrifice on the cross that we all recieve. Freedom in Christ and the joy of eternal life .
"I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. " Mother Teresa